“, you get attracting a type that is certain of. ” Actually that does not work with some dudes given that it assumes there are ladies who are actually interested in (and therefore pursue) them. In my own situation, i’ve never approached a female with no girl has ever pursued me – and so I never have had even one date during my life time. Dudes we are chronically involuntarily single like me have to just accept that we’re unable to attract women of any type no matter what. Attraction just isn’t a selection – women don’t ‘decide’ maybe maybe maybe not to be drawn to me – they simply aren’t and that’s simply the way it really is. I’m attracted to a lot of women, but won’t ever approach one because i am aware they might never ever be interested in me – they can’t help it to also it’s not their fault. I just want one woman could possibly be drawn to me – that’s all.